MYTH #1   Drop activities that Zap your energy.  All time favorite.  It’s on every work-life balance list every published.  Where do we start?  Let’s eliminate the demanding kids, the unending laundry, the lousy husband, and the unappreciative boss.   MYTH #2   Exercise.  Why didn’t I think of that one?  Alarm is set for 4am. MYTH #3   Take…

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Life-changing events happen to all of us. Important events that change the course of life from that day forward. The ones we choose are usually exhilarating and filled with anticipation: a new job, enrolling in college, graduating from college, a wedding, a promotion, a baby, a move, a hot date, or tackling a new goal…

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Last weekend, my youngest daughter, Annabel Rose, came to me with a request to buy her a pet bird.  The request didn’t go far because there was no way I was going to buy a bird.  Time is in very short supply in our household and I could only imagine how much work a messy…

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Ready to be your own boss? You have a market-tested idea or will buy into a franchise.  CHECK You work for someone else but dream of being an entrepreneur.  CHECK You are committed to short term sacrifice for long term gain.  CHECK You have the experience to go out on your own.  CHECK You have…

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Grief is a reaction to a loss of any kind; not just the loss of a loved one. I had breakfast with a friend today and she appeared very depressed. I asked her if she was OK and she shared with me that she had ended her 1 year relationship with a man she was…

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I will be on a flight to Las Vegas tomorrow attending a very special event for a very special person.  Go online and you’ll find many lists of where to go, what to see, what you must not miss and how to travel in style to America’s Sin City.   It’s true.  Las Vegas is the…

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Let’s work on taking your career to an improved destination…someplace tropical so you can sip a fresh Pina Colada perhaps?  Or, maybe just a promotion and pay increase?  Yep!  That’s better.  If these simple little gestures helped me, I guarantee they can work for you.  No more sucking up to the boss with yummy doughnuts…

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Any gift ideas for my “hard to buy for” husband?  Saturday is his birthday and I am clueless on what to get.  In my opinion, he has everything he needs plus extra.  Last year I shopped at my fave, TJ Maxx, and picked up a pair of very nice Perry Ellis dress socks (although we…

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I think about the decisions and choices that I have made over the years.  Would I go back in time and change things if I had the opportunity? Well, I wish I hadn’t gotten married the first time around so that I would have never gotten divorced, but then I wouldn’t have my beautiful baby…

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From atheist, to agnostic to newbie Christian, I am very interested in the “Happy Holidays” versus “Merry Christmas” hullabaloo.  I don’t think that there is anything more boring, vague and generic than the phrase “Happy Holidays.”  Is there this great fear of offending someone who does not celebrate Christmas?  As a diverse culture, we embrace…

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